Family Gathering - Happy Hour

Last Saturday we have a family gathering at Jatt's sister house. Jatt's brother, Abang Dat and family came from Singapore for work matters at KL and also time to visit family here.
They came with Sofea's twin sister and also her aunt, most likely they will take care of the kids during Sofea attending the course.

The dinner was so special, prepared by Mak Chom as usual, the best cook i ever known in Jatt family. That nite she cook Nasi tomato, 'Ayam Golek (Chicken menu)', Dal Curry, Salad, Liver Chili and few more , that make that table so full. And i cant wait to taste all, so can u imagine Jatt? hehehhehe ..Happy to see him enjoy the food...

Food: So nice (i have an advantage to bring back some if in case i hungry at midnite ....hehehehhe)

Gathering: Happy and best moments to spend with everyone, missing every one, catch up time, updating , gossip and share the love of family values

Some pictures for viewing......

The food served, cook by Mak Chom.....i have got the menu recipe partly, coz Jatt favorite is all there.....hehehhe what else to make sue your husband love you more? isn't thru his stomach? Some say so.....

Jatt as a chairman of the nite, (no lah kidding)...the red blouse is MAk Chom, the chef f the nite, next to her is Abang Dat, next to him is his sister in law (Sofea's twin sister)
Enjoying the food and catch up with some stories......

Sofea- my sister in law who is very caring n nice person, a Chinese-Muslim convert.
Abang Dat and Abdel Matin bz with his PSP. Matin is 1st son of my bro in law, who is too pampered by everyone. He so shy and speak English so well at his 5 years old.

This is my Lovely , chubby, cute and naughty Abdel Hadi, 6 mths old, with weight of 10 kg. Hrrmmmm they said he look like more Uncle JAtt...well, now i imagine how JAtt junior will look like too....hhehehe ...he now can say 'ta ta ta...' and when he cry the father will sing a song ....'where is hadi where is hadi?'....so damn cute....

If you guys were asking where is my picture, hrrmmm maybe fat lady doesn't fit the frame...so i am outside the picture...no lah i am the one who took pictures ma.....

Price & Services MAtters - You have a choice then....

Last few week, i experience bleeding again, but this time fresh blood after morning urine. Rushing to hospital, after check here and there, until i feel pain like crazy, then they send me home without any medication or any conclusion. huh!!!!....i feel so worry...asking doctor this and that.... she just say something i really dunt think so its the answer....but bcoz she is the doctor, i have no argument....else heading home with full of question mark, and later checking online for possibilities and answers.......to compare 1st time i was admitted in hospital during my 5 mths of pregnancy, this time was more blood and very fresh...but no action taken....the doctor ask me to come again after a week....then the next week visit also is nothing....and met other doctor who has know nothing abt my pregnancy history...she keep asking me the condition while she can read in my file all the history....i was so angry (plus i have to wait few hours, register at 7.30am and was called to meet the doctor at 10.00am....so long wait, but only take me 5 minutes of check up?...haiyooo)..but still i try to be nice...telling her what the doctor said and what I can remember about my last check up. She said all the things tat i told her not in my files and she dunt think so .....What???!!! i am so angry, she just touch my tummy here n there, not even scan or what...then she said....

"ok lah u can go home, n meet me other 4 weeks" ...

What??? so who gonna explain my problem now? Why I am bleeding? I asked the doc again...then she said she dunt know y? (Then she must take a future action to check properly....where she dunt even care to do so)
I am heading home again with full of question mark and feeling really upset with general hospital service...but as far as i can see, there is more than 100 pregnant ladies from various races waiting to get check...so no wonder the service like that....general hospital....what more to complain about... and some more i only paid RM5 per visit ....last time I was check at Details Scan unit , Daily Care Department and it was different service...errmmmm, to comfort myself, both Jatt & I thinking to get second opinion from the private hospital...

But what if the hospital can give an option to the public...if the public have money to pay...they can get specialist- of coz with extra money paid....but at same hospital, or if they cant afford, they can pay RM5 and get that service....do you think it is much better than we left with no option then?

I am left with lotssss more questions and suggestion....

Pregnancy Update - Week 33

hello all.....hows life for you? Challenging? Tiring? Bz? Happy? Dissatisfied ? Well its all the ingredients thats make life so great and so pain....but at the end of the day we still wake up next morning with same routine.....continue this day life......

Just quick update abt my pregnancy progress....for those who wonder where were liltle baby and I end up to?

ME
- Has booked the hospital near my house are for the delivery, its a affordable private hospital with all the facilities; esp for the O&G. Recommended by a fren who recently delivered a lil baby gurl.
- since last month, i had experience few series of bleeding again , where i end up rushing to HKL and return home with no action taken or any information that at least make me breath easy. Hrrrmmmmm.... what so much to complain about when doctor said I am OK. May be i can write other entry about that few series of the visit to HKL
- I am happy that the new specialist, Doctor L, has been so informative and know what she is doing to me, upon my last two visit. She gave me really clear information and also good advice. For the 1st time, i feel OK about doctors information about my pregnancy. May be that the results you get when you pay at the private hospital

- Doctor L told me that my bleeding is not from the fetus problem or baby itself. it all about local bleeding- which is medical term that explain nothing to do with the baby- he is safe in his nest now. So now its all me that caused me bleeding every now and then....had a problem with inflammation at the cervix ....but under control....hhrrmmmm what else i want to say, Thanks God its not my baby......

- Gone thru the CTG for Lil Iman - coz last 2 days there is bleeding and Lil Iman move less....so worry about his condition, we gone thru the procedure. Alhamdulillah....he was ok and mum also OK
- The doctor has give me the pill- which to control my contraction. So i shud hold this lil baby here till at least 36th week and have safe delivery. Even now safe for me to have the labor, but the doc advice to wait a lil bit more...hehheheheh be patient Iman.....
- I am now 57kg....maybe by the time i am writing here, i am now 59kg...hehehhe heavy and hard to move ...even to get up from the seat is quite difficult for me...hehehehe..wondering if i can get back to my normal weight after this? its ok ..many time to think abt it, whats more important is now....
- I am hungry and hungry all the time, but it is sad to deal with my appetite ...i only eat things i want to eat....but to my surprise i really craving for traditional food like 'Malay Traditional Kueh' and fruits. I can eat 1kg of rambutan at one time,...now i am thinking of banana, durian, watermelon and also guava....yummy.....
- i drink a lot now esp Sirap Bandung and Sarsi....crazy me....
- my foot swallow easily whenever i walk or do bit of house chores...even the doctor advice me to have rest- to be more precise rest on the bed almost of the time, i cant do that...tell me if you can just lying all the day....... i also easily feel pain here and there...but to tell the truth its all normal for the pregnant lady..hehheheh at least i have that experience ...precious pain i said...
- I always dream of birth and baby lately...also NORMAL for the mother to be....i am over excited about the 1st cry of my Lil Iman they said....
- All the lil baby things and mine, was ready and now is time to relax and wait for the contraction to come...and deliver safely...
- i am now really need to familiarize myself with all the labor terms such as breathing technique, epidural, episiotomy, forceps, breech, placenta previa, etc - so when the time come i shud understand more and never let the doc simply take action without really understand the things...


IMAN
- last week his weight was 1.8kg already...and the specialist said, it can grow more and reach about 2kg++...hopefully, so i eat more for both of us...
- his head is at the lower position, ready to engage for the labor process
- He is baby boy- CONFIRM again
- Specialist found his bones quite long and maybe he is tall boy later...hehehehe as long he is healthy
- HIS CTG shows that he heartbeat at great pattern and was good even i complaint to the specialist he move less lately- this is due to less space for dancing inside
- If he moved, he kicking hard and i feel fainted. He quite understand esp when JAtt and I talking about him...hrrmmmm sign of intelligent mummy said.

i might be deliver early than expected date, coz the EDD on 3rd September is at 40 week. Doc L said i maybe deliver as early as 36 week which mean around of mid August...hhhrrrnnnnn..not long to go...
Please pray for our safety and healthy....i will having my delivery and confinement here .... its quite challenging but what else to say.....